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Before there was Lizzie Rose …

There was “Mike”, the young fella who bags my groceries in the market, and wheels them out to load them into my trunk, chatting season after season about Youngstown State University football, and witching how during the Holiday season he picks up more hours at the grocery store, and it might mess up his SSI.

And then there was the sweet and pretty girl “Deanna” that sat in the stands as my oldest Sara and her older sister ran track, and then she moved inside to toss and fetch volleyballs for Sara’s and Kate’s teams during volleyball season. (Little did I know that girl and her lovely Mom would be two of the people who would help shine a light to lead me out of a queer darkness of fear and uncertainty.) The girl I would a few years later stand and cheer the loudest for as she graduated with Kate’s high school class as Lizzie Rose sat beside me in the bleachers and clapped.

A few years before my girls were in grade school, and Michael, my husband, and I found out we were “unexpectedly” expecting. We decided that was number three that I had always figured I would have, and we would be finished. But early in my second trimester I had a miscarriage and began bleeding out in surgery. I woke in recovery to see my doctor sitting on the edge of my bed with this look of concern I never wanted to see again in a doctor’s face around me or my family. There was a dull whistling inside my ears from my low blood pressure. He told me I was lucky … that at the least I could have stroked out, and at the most bled to death. I refused blood, he warned of a lingering danger of a stroke if my blood count didn’t come up, and he pushed the IV fluids. (I argued since he couldn’t guarantee the blood would be 100% safe, I would not come through this only to spend years fighting HIV). Michael was beside himself at my stubbornness. We agreed we were done. Sara and Kate were all we were meant to have, and they were treasures. However, we aren’t the most ‘efficient’ people. Procrastination is in our DNA. So, a few years later the “unexpected” visited us again.

By this time I was just over 40. I knew the odds I was facing. But the one true thing I have always practiced in my faith was to never second guess God. And so, much to the ire of my two OBs, I continually refused the prenatal tests. I was told if ‘something’ were found we would discuss my ‘options’. There were NO ‘options’, I told them. That God intended for me to trust in His plan, whatever it was, for me and this baby. No judgements. They accepted that begrudgingly, but it was MY choice. For nine months I tried NOT to dwell on what might be, but somehow knew … you know? So when Lizzie Rose was born she looked perfectly fine. The delivery room doctor marked “No Abnormalities” on her delivery report. For three days I cuddled her close, nursed her from my breast, warmed her against my body, caressed her rose petal flesh and tuft of down-soft blond hair gently with my lips, inhaled that sweet new baby scent. Softly sang The Gypsy Rover to her on my shoulder as I had to her two older sisters before her. I fell head over heals in love with this “unexpected” joy who blinked up at me with deep blue eyes of trust and ‘knowing’.

And then an hour before Michael was to pick us up from the hospital and take us home a nurse and a doctor came into the room, closed the door and began to gently express their growing suspicions that Lizzie Rose was Down Syndrome. Her physical characteristics were so mild and unnoticeable to the untrained eye, but were becoming just a little more obvious as she ‘filled-out’ each passing day. It was as if my blood had suddenly been replaced by Arctic water. I felt it filling my brain, my skull was to bursting. I scooped my baby out of the doctor’s arms and clung to her on the bed. There was that ‘look of concern’ on the doctor’s face … the one I had never again wanted to see. They were judging her. I didn’t cry. I was in shock. After a few minutes of coaxing the doctor took Lizzie down to the nursery for blood work to send out for genetic testing. The nurse stayed with me as I stared at the wall. She tried to get me to talk, but I just wanted her to shut up. Michael finally walked into the room, saw the look on my pale face and panicked as he feared Lizzie had died. I couldn’t speak. I just stared at him. The nurse explained what was going on as this dull whistling rang inside my ears. And then, all of a sudden I heard myself say something that caused Michael and the nurse to blink back across the room at me in horror … “Hitler killed them first, you know …” I swear to you, THAT thought was all I could think of for that long endless hour since being told. The nurse actually choked up as she excused herself from my room. “You bring my baby back in here right now,” I insisted. “Stop poking her with needles and bring her in here so I can feed her and hold her …”

There was a darkness all around me. THIS was a baby no woman would ever wish for. This was a baby most women would have rid themselves of within days of being tested prenatally. This was a baby whose worth to society was minimal, at best. THIS was a baby I was completely in love with, and knew what the rest of the world outside would be thinking when they looked at her. Judging her. Pitying her … and pitying me. Unable to understand exactly what I had been entrusted with in this child … by God. She was The Holy Grail. Remember I told you about the sales guy from the station where I worked, and his question about a single light shining down on you in a dark room … and how would I feel? I said ‘safe’. Unless I was holding Lizzie Rose that light was NOT shining down on me. Day after day the fear faded away to a first smile on her heart-shaped lips, and then a second. And then a first giggle … a crawl across the floor after Kate’s curious Siamese cat, and a firm tug of his tail upon finally catching up to him. Her little hand pressed to the plexi-glass mirror her Daddy had taped on the side of her dresser where she spent hours sitting as she made faces and sounds at her reflection as she became fully aware of herself among the other human beings in the house. Pulling herself up on the piano bench as Kate practiced Beethoven. Emerging from Sara’s room with her hair in some fancy mangle of ribbon and curls as her big sister’s “Girly Girl”. And more fear faded and the light grew brighter as the doctors shook their heads with pleased wonder and told me she had none of the typical health issues associated with DS … that Lizzie Rose was a ‘normal’ healthy baby. That we were very “blessed” … yes, they used the word “blessed”. No judgements.

And so, God had put “Mike” and “Deanna” in my life path to pave the way for Lizzie Rose. I only hope and pray God has put Lizzie Rose in someone else’s life path, and will continue to do so her whole life … so they learn not to judge.

‘Eugenic Abortion’: With Pre-Natal Testing, 9 in 10 Down Syndrome Babies Aborted

By Penny Starr – (CNSNews)

In 1972, a year before the Supreme Court’s Roe v. Wade decision legalized abortion on demand nationwide, virtually all children with trisomy 21, or Down syndrome, were born. Less than a decade later, with the widespread availability of pre-natal genetic testing, as many as 90 percent of women whose babies were pre-natally diagnosed with the genetic condition chose to abort the child.

The practice has been described by one physician as “eugenic abortion.”
One survey of 499 primary care physicians treating women carrying these babies, however, indicated that only 4 percent actively encourage women to bring Down syndrome babies to term.

Down syndrome, which occurs in individuals who have three rather than two copies of the 21st chromosome, causes distinct physical characteristics such as low muscle tone and upward slanting eyes. It also causes mental retardation, which can range from mild to severe.

With the advent and increasing use of pre-natal testing, according to studies in the United States and United Kingdom, a diagnosis of Down syndrome has led to as many as nine out of 10 women choosing to abort the child.

A 2000 anonymous survey of 499 primary care physicians in the United States, published by Georgetown University, indicated that only 4 percent of physicians who attend women whose babies are pre-natally diagnosed encourage them to continue the pregnancy and allow the baby with Down syndrome to be born.

Thirteen percent of doctors attending pregnant mothers whose babies are discovered to have Down syndrome, this survey said, “emphasize” the negative aspects of Down syndrome and 10 percent said they “urge” the mothers to terminate the life of the baby.

Sixty-three percent reported they “tried to be as unbiased as possible when delivering a pre-natal diagnosis” and 10 percent indicated they “emphasize” the positive aspects of Down syndrome.

A 1998 study by the Department of Newborn Medicine at Brigham and Women’s Hospital at Harvard Medical School, published in Genetics of Medicine, concluded that in 1972, 1 in 1,000 babies were born with the extra chromosome that causes Down syndrome.

“There was no pre-natal detection between 1972 and 1974,” said the report, which then measured how many women aborted their Down syndrome babies between 1972 and 1994.

“Between 1972 and 1994 the percentage of infants with Down syndrome who were liveborn decreased dramatically,” the report said. “In the early 1980s, this decrease reflected the impact of amniocentesis among women 35 and older.

“By the late 1980s, pre-natal detection was common among women younger than 35 years and detection was by several modalities including AFP screening, sonography and amniocentesis. When the (Down syndrome) diagnosis was established before 24 weeks of gestation, 86% to 87% of the parents chose elective termination of the pregnancy,” it said.

Another 1998 study by Wayne State University published in the American Journal of Genetics concluded that almost 90 percent of Down syndrome babies were aborted between 1987 and 1997.

“In conclusion,” the report said, “our data confirm that most patients referred to a tertiary care center are likely to choose termination of pregnancy after the diagnosis of Down syndrome, even in the absence of severe ultrasound abnormalities.”

The 2004 annual report of the Down Syndrome Cytogenetic Register at the Wolfson Institute of Preventive Medicine in London found an even higher number of abortions were done after a pre-natal Down syndrome diagnosis in Great Britain. In 2003, 91 percent of cases with known outcomes resulted in abortion. The same percentage was recorded in 2004.

ACOG wants more testing

Studies show pre-natal testing for Down syndrome has become increasingly common over the last three decades, however, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) in January 2007 called for even more testing.

“All pregnant women, regardless of age, should be offered screening for Down syndrome,” according to the new Practice Bulletin issued (Jan. 2, 2007) by the ACOG.

“ACOG also advises that all pregnant women, regardless of their age, should have the option of diagnostic testing,” the Bulletin states. “ACOG recognizes that a woman’s decision to have an amniocentesis or CVS is based on many factors, such as a family or personal history of birth defects, and the risk of pregnancy loss from an invasive procedure.”

But Dr. Will Johnston, president of Canadian Physicians for Life, reacted to ACOG’s pre-natal testing endorsement as another step toward eugenics.

“The progress of eugenic abortion into the heart of our society is a classic example of “mission creep,’ ” Johnson said in an article posted on the group’s Web site in February 2007. “In the 1960s, we were told that legal abortion would be a rare tragic act in cases of exceptional hardship. In the ‘70s abortion began to be both decried and accepted as birth control. In the ‘80s respected geneticists pointed out that it was cheaper to hunt for and abort Down’s babies than to raise them. By the ‘90s that observation had been widely put into action. Now we are refining and extending our eugenic vision, with new tests and abortion as our central tools.”

Today, women of all ages who seek pre-natal care with an obstetrician are offered screenings that can estimate the mother’s risk of carrying a Down syndrome baby.

These screenings include a blood test to find certain “markers” associated with the genetic condition and sonograms, which doctors can use to measure the fluid in the neck of the baby, or nuchal translucency, which also can indicate that the developing baby has Down syndrome.

If the results of these screenings indicate there is a higher risk that an unborn child might have Down syndrome, doctors offer the mother additional diagnostic tests, including amniocentesis, which requires inserting a needle into the womb to draw amniotic fluid so the chromosomes of fetal cells can be examined.

Another test, Chorionic villus sampling, or CVS, collects fetal cells from the placenta via the cervix. Both tests are almost 100 percent accurate in detecting Down syndrome in an unborn child.

Because they are invasive, however, both tests can cause a miscarriage. According to ACOG and the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, for example, between one in 400 and one in 200 women have a miscarraige after amniocentesis. Other complications that can arise from amniocentesis include injury to the developing baby and infection.

The risk of miscarriage after first-trimester amniocentesis may be three times higher than the risk after second-trimester amniocentesis, according to the results of the Canadian Early and Mid-Trimester Amniocentesis Trial Group, which were published in The Lancet in 1998.

Results of a 2004 study published in Obstetrics and Gynecology suggested that early amniocentesis may also increase the risk of the deformity called clubfoot.

According to the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (RCOG) in London, the additional overall risk of miscarriage from amniocentesis is approximately one percent. In other words, about one in every 100 women who have amniocentesis under ultrasound guidance after 15 weeks will miscarry.

RCOG also claims that the additional overall risk of miscarriage from CVS is approximately two percent. In other words, about two in every 100 women who have CVS under ultrasound guidance after 10 weeks will miscarry.

Dr. Lewis B. Holmes, a geneticist at Massachusetts General Hospital who participated in the 1998 study on pre-natal testing at Brigham and Women’s Hospital, said that some patients refuse pre-natal screening.

“The (patients) who have strong religious or cultural leaning … don’t take the test,” Holmes told CNSNews.com. “So they make their choice very easily.”

But many, Holmes said, use the pre-natal diagnosis of Down syndrome as a reason to end the pregnancy.

“Even though you encourage, ‘take your time, take your time,’ they usually display a real sense of urgency,” Holmes said.

Post-test resources

Some parents of children with Down syndrome told CNSNews.com that when they got their diagnostic test results, they did not get the information they needed about the condition and the resources that are available to them and their children.

Lucy Talbot, the mother of a Down syndrome child, is president of Families Exploring Down Syndrome, a support group of some 200 families in Michigan that have children with the genetic condition.

Talbot said her group’s Changing Lives program, developed by the National Down Syndrome Society, is designed to teach medical professionals how to give a compassionate diagnosis and provide the resources and support that parents need.

“(The doctor) says, ‘Your baby has these characteristics, we think your baby has Down syndrome,’” Talbot said. “They say, ‘We’re going to do some blood work,’ and they walk out of the room.”

“You’ve just changed a person’s life forever,” she said.

Dr. Holmes said he offers detailed information about Down syndrome to parents, as well as giving them the option of speaking with parents who have children with the genetic condition.

But Brian Skotko, a resident physician at Children’s Boston Hospital, said Holmes is the exception, not the rule. Skotko cited the results of a questionnaire sent out to 1,105 ACOG fellows and junior fellows in 2004.

Among the 60 percent that were returned, 80 percent said they felt qualified to counsel patients about genetic issues and pregnancy, but 45 percent rated their residency training regarding prenatal diagnosis as “barely adequate” or “non-existent.”

Skotko, who has a sister with Down syndrome and serves on several boards of Down syndrome advocacy groups, said pre-natal testing has put the fate of unborn children in their parents’ hands.

“Current testing affords couples to learn, if they so desire, pre-natally whether or not their fetus has Down syndrome,” Skotko said.

“I encourage all parents to think about and answer two essential questions, which I think can be their guideposts through all pre-natal testing that’s available during pregnancy. One, they need to answer for themselves when does life begin and then answer the question, what forms of human life are valuable?” he added.

“The first question will determine for them when life starts,” he said, “so what testing done at certain times may determine for them whether or not termination is allowable in their own moral compass.”

“And then once life begins, they then need to answer the other question, what forms of human life are valuable?” said Skotko. “Some people say, once life begins, all forms of human life are valuable–others say, once life begins, only certain characteristics are valuable.”

New tests could increase abortions

Now, a new pre-natal blood test that could check a baby’s DNA has been developed by researcher Dr. Stephen Quake and his team at Stanford University. Quake said a broader test is needed.

Carol Boys, chief executive of the Down’s (sic) Syndrome Association in Great Britain, told the BBC that the less invasive blood test will make pre-natal testing safer and more common.

“There is no question that these non-invasive tests will be introduced in the next few years,” Boys said. “It’s therefore incredibly important that potential parents are given accurate information on Down’s (sic) syndrome before they make a choice about whether to terminate or not.”

But Alison Davis of the No Less Human group that is a part of the British Society for the Protection of Unborn Children said in an article on lifenews.com that the new test wasn’t a positive development.

“”The new non-invasive test for Down’s syndrome will inevitably mean more pre-natal testing, leading to more abortions of babies with the condition. Describing this as a ‘breakthrough’ is offensive to people who live with Down’s syndrome, and to all who recognize the equal right to life of disabled people,” she said.

Me: Over the years since Lizzie Rose was born I have read and read and read stories and articles about Down Syndrome. It is the scientific and medical community of Great Britain’s (and other ‘socialist’ countries) intent to ‘eradicate’ Down Syndrome from their society within the next couple generations … What you read above is relatively mild doctor to patient interaction compared to the cold, clinical and even pressured approach the doctors in Great Britain take to insisted prenatal testing … and pregnancy termination upon positive test results. Woman who have refused one or both have been called “Genetic Outlaws”.

At the heart of the left NOT wanting Sarah Palin near the White House, and their ‘pronification’ of her these last couple months, is the fact she threatens that doctor/patient panic and control that helps steer the doctor to guide the mother to the abortion. Sarah and Trig put a face on the ‘faceless’ babies that are deemed useless, and thrown away via abortion. They do NOT want Trig in the White House … He cuts to the base core of their reasoning and argument for abortion. To see him grow and thrive with his mother’s love is a threat to them.

Judgement.

Lizzie Rose … No judgements.